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Dear Friend, Let Me Speak to Your Heart…
STOP SETTLING FOR LESS!
I want you to pause and really think about this:
“Just because someone keeps you around doesn’t mean they value you. It could be for fun, time wastage, convenience, or comfort—but know your place in people’s lives.”
It hurts to realize that sometimes, you’re showing up for people who wouldn’t do the same for you. You’re giving your time, emotions, loyalty, and support… but deep down, you keep feeling like you’re just an option, not a priority.
That’s not love. That’s not friendship. That’s not what you deserve.
Let me lovingly remind you: You are valuable. You are not a filler for someone’s boredom, nor a backup plan. You are not a toy for someone to pick up and drop at their convenience. God didn’t create you to be used—He created you to be honored.
If someone truly values you:
You won’t have to wonder where you stand.
You won’t have to beg for time, attention, or respect.
You won’t be made to feel invisible when someone better comes along.
Please don’t lose yourself trying to matter in someone’s life who has never made room for you. Know your worth. Know when to walk away. Know when staying becomes self-sabotage.
Value yourself enough to be around people who see you—not as a convenience, but as a blessing.
Let go of forced spaces, and trust God to lead you into rooms where you’re not just invited, but celebrated.
You deserve better.
And better will find you—when you stop settling for less.
Pastor/Counselor,
Wale-Rich Oladunjoye
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