π« My Advice: “Silence that covers one with honour is better than speech that earns him regrets.” π«
My dear friend,
there is great wisdom in learning when to speak and when to stay silent. Not every situation demands a response, and not every provocation deserves your voice. Sometimes, silence is not a sign of weakness β it is a mark of maturity, discipline, and inner strength.
There are moments when the wisest thing you can do is to hold your peace. Your silence can protect your honour, preserve your relationships, and prevent you from saying words that you may later wish you could take back. One careless statement, one emotional outburst, or one heated reply can undo years of trust and respect.
But silence, chosen wisely, often earns you more dignity than a thousand words spoken in haste. It allows you to think, to listen, and to see things clearly before reacting. It gives room for God to defend you and for truth to reveal itself without your interference.
Remember β people may forget your silence, but they will never forget your words. So, before you speak, pause and ask:
π Will this word build or destroy?
π Will this response bring peace or regret?
π Is this Godβs time for me to speak, or His time for me to be still?
True wisdom is not just knowing what to say β itβs knowing when to say nothing at all.
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π Proverbs 21:23 (KJV):
βWhoso keepeth his mouth and his tongue keepeth his soul from troubles.β
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π¬ My counsel to you:
Let your silence be guided by peace and your words be governed by wisdom. Never rush to speak when your heart is still burning with anger. A moment of silence can save you from a lifetime of regret.
Be still, stay calm, and let your composure speak louder than your voice. You will discover that silence, in the right moment, is one of lifeβs greatest shields of honour.
Pastor/Counselor,
Wale-Rich Oladunjoye