💡 My Advice
My dear friend,
Let me share something important with you: “IT IS MORE HONOURABLE TO HURT SOMEONE WITH THE TRUTH THAN COMFORT HIM WITH LIES.”
Sometimes the truth may sting for a moment, but lies destroy for a lifetime. If you really care about someone — whether it’s a friend, a partner, a child, or even yourself — you must be willing to face and speak the truth. Lies may give temporary relief, but they build a false foundation that will eventually collapse. Truth, on the other hand, is like medicine: it may taste bitter at first, but it brings healing and freedom in the long run.
Don’t choose comfort over honesty. If you love someone, don’t protect their feelings at the cost of their future. Be courageous enough to say the truth with love, even if it hurts. One day, they will look back and thank you for your honesty.
Remember, honour is not found in making people feel good with deception, but in helping them grow strong with truth.
Pastor/Counselor,
Wale-Rich Oladunjoye