STOP TRYING TO PROVE YOURSELF

My dear friend,
Let me share something with you: Taking time to improve is much better than wasting time to prove.

Don’t spend your energy trying to convince people of your worth, your talent, or your value. No matter how much you try to prove yourself, some people will still doubt you, misunderstand you, or set higher expectations. That’s a trap that drains your strength and distracts you from your true journey.

Instead, channel that same energy into improvement. Work on your skills, sharpen your character, grow in wisdom, deepen your relationship with God, and develop your capacity. When you improve, you don’t need to prove — your results will speak louder than any explanation you could ever give.

So, focus on becoming better, not on proving you’re already good enough. In the long run, growth outlasts validation. Remember: progress is the best evidence of potential.

Pastor/Counselor,
Wale-Rich Oladunjoye