My dear friend,
RESPOND , DON’T REACT
I know how tempting it is to react immediately when you feel wronged, misunderstood, or provoked. Your emotions may urge you to speak out, defend yourself, or retaliate. But I want to remind you—true strength is not found in reacting but in restraining.
A quick reaction may bring temporary satisfaction, but it can also lead to regret. Harsh words spoken in the heat of the moment cannot be taken back, and actions made in anger can cause lasting damage. However, when you choose to restrain yourself, you allow wisdom to take the lead. You give yourself time to think, to seek God’s guidance, and to respond in a way that brings peace instead of conflict.
Proverbs 16:32 says, “He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty.” This means that self-control is a greater display of strength than physical power. When you choose patience over impulsiveness, you show true strength and maturity. So, before you react, pause. Breathe. Pray. Trust that God will handle things in a way that is far better than any reaction you could give. Stay strong in restraint, and you will always walk in wisdom.
Sincerely,
Wale-Rich Oladunjoye