My Advice: FINISH THE YEAR WELL THROUGH APPRECIATION
As this year draws to a close, let me advise you with sincerity and love: do not end the year without expressing appreciation—both to God and to people who truly deserve it. Many people rush into a new year carrying emotional debts, unspoken gratitude, and overlooked relationships. Wisdom teaches us to settle these matters before the calendar turns.
First, take time to appreciate God intentionally. Go beyond routine prayers. Reflect deeply on where He kept you, helped you, corrected you, and sustained you. Some things did not work out the way you planned, yet you are still standing—that alone deserves thanksgiving. When you thank God, you acknowledge that your life did not survive by chance but by grace.
Next, appreciate people. Think carefully about those God used in your journey this year—those who supported you, corrected you, prayed for you, stood by you, or even stretched you. Some of them may never ask for thanks, but your appreciation will speak volumes. A simple call, message, or conversation can heal hearts, strengthen relationships, and close the year in peace.
Do not assume people “already know” you are grateful. Say it. Express it. Honor them. Appreciation costs little but yields great returns. It clears misunderstandings, restores joy, and keeps doors open for the future.
My advice to you is simple but powerful: before this year runs out, thank God sincerely and thank people deliberately. When you do, you will not only end the year well—you will enter the new year lighter, freer, and positioned for greater favor.
Pastor/Counselor,
Wale-Rich Oladunjoye