My Counsel: WALK AWAY WHEN NEEDED
My friend,
never mistake your decision to walk away from negativity as weakness. It is not cowardice—it is courage. It means you have learned the value of your peace, your focus, and your spiritual health. You don’t need to argue with everyone, defend yourself in every situation, or respond to every provocation. Sometimes, silence and distance are the greatest expressions of strength.
You see, negative people and toxic environments are designed to drain your energy, distort your vision, and distract you from your purpose. The more you engage them, the more they pull you into their chaos. But when you choose to turn away, you rise above their influence and keep your spirit in alignment with God. That’s wisdom.
There is a time to fight and there is a time to walk away—and knowing the difference is maturity. Walking away doesn’t mean you have lost the battle; it means you have refused to lose your peace. Remember what Proverbs 4:23 says: “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.” Protecting your heart from negativity is protecting your destiny.
So, don’t feel guilty for stepping back, keeping quiet, or choosing peace. The people who misunderstand your silence are not meant to understand your growth. You owe no explanation for choosing peace over drama. Every time you walk away from negativity, you walk closer to your purpose.
Guard your spirit. Protect your joy. Choose peace—because peace is power.
Pastor/Counselor,
Wale-Rich Oladunjoye