If you’re holding onto regrets, remember this: they are nothing but wasted thoughts. While it’s natural to feel regret over past mistakes, dwelling on them will not change the past—it only robs you of the energy and clarity you need for the present and future. Instead of replaying scenarios you cannot undo, focus on what you can learn from them. Ask yourself, “What can I do differently moving forward?” or “How can this experience shape me for the better?”

Every regret can be a stepping stone to growth if you let it. Choose to let go of the negativity tied to your past and use it as a motivator to make better choices today. Living in the present with hope and determination will always be more productive than lingering in the shadows of what could have been. You can’t rewrite the past, but you have full control over the story you write from this moment onward.